Early Life
Harry Nisbet was born on the 11
th of November 1794 on the island of
Nevis in the Leeward Islands, the youngest son of
Walter Nisbet and
Anne Parry. His father Walter had also been born on Nevis and was the manager of the Nevis estates of the
Stapleton family.
Came to England with my mother and her other children after my father’s death in 1799 [sic - note that his father actually died in 1797]. Went to Scotland in the fall of that year to reside in Clydesdale, Lanarkshire, with my aunt, my father’s sister, the wife of James Lockhart Esq, who had a good estate & residence, called Cambusnethan. Lived with my mother at Dalserf House, in that neighbourhood, until the summer of 1803, removing then to Edinburgh where we remained until August 1805, when we went to England, I being then 12 years old.
Entered the Military College at Great Marlow, Bucks, March 1808 and remained there until the close of 1809, when the East India Company’s College for Engineer & Artillery Cadets was established at Addiscombe, Croydon. Went to India to join the Engineers in June 1811 and reached Calcutta in November of the same year.
Quitted my military life, and entered the Bengal Civil Service, at the close of 1814. Spent a year at College there, learning the languages, Persian & Hindustani. Received a gold medal for my advance in those languages.
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Career
Harry commenced Civil duties in 1815, as Assistant to William Malcolm Fleming, Judge of the district of Firhoot, a worthy Scotsman
"with whom I acquired most friendly relations". He remained in India for nine years before deciding to return to England in 1824, aged 30.
We had a pleasant and rather sociable voyage, in the “Marchioness of Ely”, commanded by Captain Charles Mangles, a thorough gentleman, with whom I formed an intimate & lasting acquaintance.
From London, where I lingered too long (as I ought to have gone more promptly) to Bath to see my two sisters residing there. The journey I effected in a new gig, and with a horse, both costing me over £100...I shortly set out for Scotland to see my relations there, where I remained in Edinburgh with my cousins, Major & Mrs Robertson, and in Lanarkshire at Cambusnathan, with my first cousin Robert Lockhart, until the month of May 1826.
Who these Robertson cousins are is still to be established, but note that the Bryans family also married into the
Robertsons.
Harry then commenced a rather comprehensive tour of Europe:
"Leaving Scotland, in prosecution of a foreign tour, I hired a French servant named Antoine and went to Paris, in May 1826. After a month’s stay in Paris, I went to Lyons from thence to Geneva. Whilst there, I made a tour to Chamonix and the Mer de Glace; up the difficult ascent of the Gemi to Handesteg, where I slept, and then to Interlachen, a place well know to tourists; where there are beautiful walnut trees and a fine waterfall on the face of the opposite mountain and the pleasant girls entertain you with songs."
He carried on down into Italy as far as Rome and Naples before returning up and crossing into Austria via the Tyrol, then Germany and finally back to England via Dover in June 1827.
Family Life
Harry married
Anne Harriet Curtis-Hayward on the 19
th of February 1828 in
Quedgeley, Gloucestershire; he was 33 and she was 24. Harry describes their introduction thus:
"I repaired to Cheltenham and attained an introduction to Quedgeley, the residence of the Hayward family, and there, after a more intimate acquaintance, my happy fate was sealed on the 19th February 1828, by marriage to Miss Anne Curtis Hayward, one who was possessed of every quality to attract affections and esteem – a union which remained close and unbroken for over forty one years.
She went with me to India, carrying out what she said (though very happy in her own family) she would “go with me to the end of the world” which she thoroughly accomplished, and in twelve years travelled land and sea, making six voyages across the ocean. "
Indeed, the married couple returned to India very shortly after the wedding and subsequently had had eight children born across India, South Africa and England:
- Anne, born 1828 in Calcutta, Bengal Presidency and d. unm in 1923
- Harry Curtis, born 1830 in Futtehgurh, North-Western Provinces, India and who married Louisa Margaret Kelso Bruce
- Emelia, born 1831 who d. unm in 1855
- Walter, born 1835 who married Jane Webb, and died in 1911 with no issue
- Mary Ellen, born 1837 who married the Rev. Nicholas McGrath and died in 1913; their children emigrated to New Zealand and Jersey
- Robert Parry, born 1839 who married Anne Wilson, dying in 1916 with no issue
- Harriet Elizabeth, born 1843 in Newland, Gloucestershire, d. unm in 1923
- Josiah, born 1844 and died in 1871, unmarried
Death
Harry died on the 11
th of December 1890, aged 96, at
Barton Regis in Bristol.
Footnotes
[1] Much of the historical detail is drawn from Harry's memoirs (
Harry Nisbet Memoirs) in the family archive